Teething Troubles or Something Else A Parent’s Real Life Guide

If you are a parent, you have probably said it at least once: “It must be teething.” Your baby is unsettled, chewing everything in sight, waking more at night, or crying in a way that feels different.

Sometimes you are right. Other times, something else is going on. This guide is here to help you tell the difference, without panic, guilt, or second guessing yourself.

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What teething usually looks like

Teething is a normal part of childhood. Most babies start teething around six months, although it can be earlier or later. Some barely notice it. Others feel everything.

Common teething signs

Sore or swollen gums
Chewing fingers, toys, or muslins
Drooling more than usual
Mild fussiness or clinginess
Slight changes in sleep

These symptoms usually come and go. They can feel intense for a few days, then ease again.

What teething does not usually cause

This is where many parents feel unsure. Teething is often blamed for symptoms that need a closer look.

Signs that are unlikely to be teething

High fever
Persistent diarrhoea or vomiting
Severe nappy rash
Refusing all feeds
Extreme lethargy or unusual drowsiness

If you notice these, it is important not to dismiss them as teething alone.

Could it be something else

Babies cannot tell us what hurts. Discomfort often shows up as crying, poor sleep, or changes in feeding.

Other common causes

Minor viral infections
Ear discomfort
Reflux or tummy pain
Growth spurts
Early tooth decay in older babies and toddlers

Trust your instincts. You know your child better than anyone else.

Comforting your baby safely

When teething is the cause, small gentle steps can make a big difference.

Offer clean teething toys
Use a clean finger to gently massage the gums
Keep feeding routines calm and unhurried
Use age appropriate pain relief only if advised

Avoid teething gels that contain sugar, and never rub substances onto gums unless recommended by a healthcare professional.

When to ask for help

You are never wasting anyone’s time by asking for reassurance.

If symptoms last more than a few days
If your baby seems unusually distressed
If feeding or sleeping changes suddenly
If you notice white or brown marks on teeth

Early advice can prevent bigger problems later, especially when it comes to oral health.

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FAQs

Can teething cause a fever

Teething may cause a slightly raised temperature, but a high fever is unlikely and should be checked.

Is crying all night normal with teething

Mild sleep disruption is common, but ongoing distress may suggest another cause.

Should I clean my baby’s teeth if they seem sore

Yes. Gentle brushing with a soft brush and suitable toothpaste is important, even during teething.

When should my baby first see a dentist

It is recommended that children see a dentist by their first birthday for early advice and reassurance.